COUNCELLING

COUNCELLING AWMZIA

                                “Councelling” chu :Mi te chungah damna te,danglamna te, hmasawnna leh thanlenna te,

athlen theih natura , an mahni in tanpui tura thurawn tu / tanpuitu tih na hi ani.

                        Councelling awmzia then khat te:

            1)Thurawn inpekna

            2)Tanpuina

            3)Thawh dunna

            4) Remruatpuina

            5) Tihdamna

            6) Inkawmna: Harsatna sukiang tura awmzenei taka titi dunna.

            7) Inkungkaihna

            8)Indona :JE Adams chuan councelling hi Ringtute leh setana indona ani ati.

            9)Hnathawh dan khaikhawmna: Heng thurawn pek, tidam zawnga sawihona leh tanpuina chi                   hrang hrang ah te hian miten ngaih dan leh remruatna thar an neih theihna tura hma lakna.

KRISTIAN COUNSELLOR

              “Counsellor chu mite harsatna sutkiansaktu nilovin, miten an harsatna sukiang tura tan anlakna kawnga tanpuitu mai ani”.

                        Councellor dinghmun tlangpui te :

                        1. A hming

                        2.A nihna (qualities)

                        3. A mawhphurhna (Responsibilities)

            1. A hming:

                        a) Remruat puitu : Counsellor thiam leh thiam loh in awmzia anei hle. Loh theih lohva thurawn pek leh remruatpui a tul hun a awm thin. Fimkhur erawh angai hle.

                                    b) Tanpuitu (helper) : Counselling hi tanpui ngai te tanpuina anih avang in, Helper tih pawn an sawi a, Counselling tih nan pawh “Helping” tih hi an hmang chawk.

            2. A nihna(Qualities): Counsellor tha leh hlawhtling ni tur chuan nihna chihrang hrang neitu nih angai.

                                    a) Mi puitling (b) Mahni inchingfel thei mi (c) Isua nena inkungkaihna tha

                                    (d) Mi dangte dah pawimawh/tuipui tu (e) Counsellee te zawlpuia in siam rem thei (f) Mi te tana in hawng (g) Mi rinzawng (h) Thuruk vawng thei (i) Thu ngaithla peih (dawh thei)

(j) Mi kawm nuam leh taima (k) Mi fimkhur (l) Thil chik mi (m) Lainatna nei (n) Pathian pawl thin mi.

            3. A mawhphurhna (responsibilities) :    (a) In buatsaihna tha neih (b) Counsellee a dah pawimawh tur ani (c) An harsatna mak tih sak loh tur (d) Zawhna fing zawh thiam (e) Zawhna apiang chhang tum vek kher loh tur (f) Counsellee ngaihdan dik tak tih chian sak tur (g) Harsatna awmtir tu leh a lanchhuah dan thliar hran thiam (h)Harsatna bul tak chhuichhuah thiam (i) Thutlukna siam hmanhmawh loh tur

                         THINLUNGA VAWN TLAT TURTE

1. Mi nun diktak leh an dinhmun hriatthiampuina neih tur.

2.Mi nun atha zawnga en fo tur ani.

3.Midangte tanpui duhna tak tak neih tlat tur.

4.Ka sawi fiah dan aiin a hriat fiah theih dan a pawimawh zawk.

5.Harsatna hi mamawh hmuhzawh loh vang ani thin.

6.Nun dan zawng zawng hian awm tirtu anei vek.

7.Awmtirtu nei chu engpawh nise sut leh theih ani.

8.Mitin hi mibik kanni vek.

9.Harsatna zawng zawng hi atuartu tan chuan harsatna ani vek.

Counselling neih atulna

1.Nun kawng atan atul.

2.Himna atan atul.

3.Zahawmna siamtu atan atul.

4.Mawhphurhna hlenchhuak thei turin atul.

5.Neitu nih inhriatna atan a tul.

6.Mihring hian adinhmun diktak leh anihna hriatthiam puitu a mamawh avangin atul.

7.Insiamthatna atan atul.

 Counselling kalpui dan hmangte (Methods) :

1) Thurawn pekna/ Kawng inkawhhmuhna (Directive counselling)

2) Remruat pui na / kawng inzawnpuina. (Non-directive counselling)

3) A tha apiang hmanna / Thlan tur in thlanpuina. (Electic counselling)

4) Pathian Thu hmanga inkawmna (Biblical Counselling)

1.Thurawn pekna/ Kawng inkawhhmuhna (Directive counselling) :- Hetiang zawnga counselling kalpui naah hian Counsellor chu dinhmun pawimawh leh a laipui berah a ding a. “ I harsatna chu chutiang khatiang chu ani, chutiang khatiang chuan tirawh’’ tiin, counsellee chu thurawn alo pe zung zung thin. Counsellee chu a mimal zalenne leh duhthlanna thiang pawh hmang hlei thei lovin counselor kutah chuan a innghat thlawp a, engmah tive tak tak thei lo leh a harsatna sukiang tura ngaihtuahna leh tha hrui pawh hmang theilovah a inngaih phah thei. Hetiang hmanga inkawm na ah hian counselor chu thil titu leh thuthlukna siama, a tawngtam zawk (speaker berah) a tang thin a chuvangin, ‘’ Counsellor centered counselling’’ ti a sawi ani bawk.

Tin, hetiang dan hi, Dispensary Approach’’ an ti bawk. A awmzia chu damlovin doctor apan ang hi kan ti thei ang. Counsellor chu dinhmun chungnung takah a ding larh a, ‘’Hetah hian lo kal ula kalo tidam ang che u’’ tih na ani ber awm e.  Mithiamte chuan hetiang hmanga inkawmna kalpui hi thatawk lo hle in an hria. (Tunlai Gospel camping/crusade etc ah te, counseling kan kalpui dan hmang nen hian a inzul thui hle)

2.Remruat pui na / kawng inzawnpuina. (Non-directive counselling) :- Mithiam hmingthang Carl Rogers chuan, ‘’ Mahni inhrechiang ber tu chu harsatna neitu (counselees) te an ni a ti. Chuvangin counseling ah chuan, harsatna neitu chu alaipui berah a dah a. Harsatna neitu chuan, amah ngeiin aharsatna chu asu kiang tur ani a, counselor chu chutih laia lo ‘tanpuitu, remruata kawng zawnpuitu mai anitur ani a ti.

Hetiang hmanga inkawmnaah hi chuan, counselor leh counselle inkarah    inkungkaihna thatak a awm a. Harsatna neitu chu a tawngtam zawkah atangin, a harsatna chingfel tura thawk dun in, counselle chuan ngaihtuahna fim leh, harsatna chingfel turin a duhthlanna thiang a hmang thei thin. A maha theihna awm chu chawh thawhin a awm a, a mah ngeiin thuthlukna siamin hma la turin a ding chhuak thei thin. Hetiang hmang hi mitamtakten tha anti a, an hman tlanglawn ber pawl ani awm e.

  3. A tha apiang hmanna / Thlan tur in thlanpuina. (Electic counselling) :-   Hetiang hmanga inkawmnaah pawh hian counselee thovin thuthlukna asiam thin. Tuilairap leh kawng zawhtur mumal hrelo te thuthlukna siam kawnga tanpuina dan ani deuh ber.

Hetiang hmangah hian, dawhtheihna apawimawh a, hmanhmawh lutuk leh thuthlukna siam thuai tura counselee nawr tur ani lo. Counsellor chuan ngaihtuahna fim leh zau tak nei chungin, ‘’ Hetiang zawng hian ni sela atha angem? He thil/ kawng hi thlang ila a fuh lo maw?’’ ti lam hawi zawnga inkawmna ani ber.

  Pathian Thu hmanga inkawmna (Biblical counseling) :- Hetiang hmanga inkawmnaah hi chuan, Pathian Thuneihna leh a chungnun zia te, Thlarau Thianghlim hnathawh leh tanpuina mihringin amawh zia te sawi lan tam ani a. Harsatna chinfelna hmanrua atan Pathian Thu dah chungnun ber ani thin.

            He dan hi ahmang thiam leh tuipui tute tan asawt viau lain, ahmang thiamlo leh Pathian Thu leh a kal hmang hre chianglo leh counselee te harsatna diktak leh harsatna neih chhan/ siamtu hriatsak thiamlote tan chuan a sawt lo mai nilo vin. Counsellee tetan beidawnna leh mahni leh Pathian rin zawhlohna hial pawh athlen thei. Fimkhur pui angai hle.

Counsellorin harsatna atawh tam tak zinga pahnih

1)      Counsellee luhlul.

2)      Counsellee ngawireng.    (2 be cont)